How to Deal With God’s Chastening
The following article is based on notes from a sermon by my pastor, Pastor Charles Surrett, on Wednesday, April 18, 2007. Pastor Charles Surrett is pastor of Emmanuel Baptist Church, Kings Mountain, NC. Notes used by his permission.
The text for this sermon was Jeremiah 29:1-14
Whom God loves He chastens. He chastens His children so that they will repent. For those who refuse to repent after God has chastened them, the Bible says that there is a sin unto death. On the other hand, the Lord will be found of us if we seek for Him with all of our hearts.
In this passage of Scripture, God gives at least 5 principles that show us how to correctly respond to His chastening.
I. Be prepared to stay in the situation for a long time – vs. 1-7 Verse 1 introduces “the letter that Jeremiah the prophet sent from Jerusalem unto the residue of the elders which were carried away captives, and to the priests, and to the prophets, and to all the people whom Nebuchadnezzar had carried away captive from Jerusalem to Babylon.”
The Babylonian captivity was the consequence of Israel’s sin. This captivity lasted 70 years. This seems like a long time, but Israel lived in idolatry for over 350 years. God forgives instantaneously, but the consequences of sin do not end instantaneously.
There are 2 types of consequences for sin.
1. temporal – these are only temporary, only experienced on this earth. These consequences include sickness, injury, loss of job, etc.
2. eternal – everlasting separation from God in the lake of fire.
Verses 5-7 describe some of the things God told Israel to do. “Build ye houses, and dwell in them; and plant gardens, and eat the fruit of them; Take ye wives, and beget sons and daughters; and take wives for your sons, and give your daughters to husbands, that they may bear sons and daughters; that ye may be increased there, and not diminished. And seek the peace of the city whither I have caused you to be carried away captives, and pray unto the LORD for it: for in the peace thereof shall ye have peace.”
A. God wanted the Israelites to build houses and make provisions for material needs.
B. God wanted the Israelites to marry and reproduce and increase in the land where they were taken captive.
C. God wanted Israel to pray for peace upon the land that had taken them captive. This may seem like a strange thing. Can you imagine Israel praying for Babylon? Yet this is what God told them to do. When God gave Babylon peace because of Israel’s prayers for it, God would also give peace to Israel.
So if you experience chastening from the Lord, if God has had to “spank” you for not listening to Him when He warned you about your sin; be prepared to stay in the situation God puts you in for a long time.
II. Do not try to fight against the situation – v. 7 “And seek the peace of the city whither I have caused you to be carried away captives, and pray unto the LORD for it: for in the peace thereof shall ye have peace.”
Do not fight against the situation. Accept it and pray to God for His help. God will give you peace. The situation may not seem pleasant now, but it will help you to be more godly and to live right in the future. Chastening is not designed to be pleasant. But it is designed to bear good fruit. God’s word says, “Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.” (Hebrews 12:11)
III. Do not listen to those who teach otherwise – vs. 8,9 “For thus saith the LORD of hosts, the God of Israel; Let not your prophets and your diviners, that be in the midst of you, deceive you, neither hearken to your dreams which ye cause to be dreamed. For they prophesy falsely unto you in my name: I have not sent them, saith the LORD.”
False teaching does not come from God. Notice how God says, “your dreams which ye cause to be dreamed.” The false prophets were not speaking words that God had told them. They were speaking things made up by man.
If God dealt with the Jewish people, His chosen people, in this manner, it would not be at all surprising if God chose to deal with America about her sin. We have turned against our godly foundation and the right principles upon which our country was founded.
IV. God wants what is best for you – v.11 “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.”
A. God thinks thoughts of peace toward you.
B. If you had “stayed in the land” and continued living in idolatry (doing whatever gives you pleasure for yourself instead of pleasing God), everything would have been wiped out.
C. God uses chastening to bring His children to the place where they must depend upon God. He uses chastening to bring them to repentance.
D. God uses chastening to correct His children so that things will go better for them in the future.
God does this for your peace. God wants the best for you. The Bible says that “the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?” (See Romans 2:4) But if you rebel against God’s goodness, He will deal with you severely. This severity is also designed to bring you to repentance. This, too, is good.
V. Seek the Lord with all your heart – vs. 12-14
Since Israel did not return to God when God warned them about their sin, God had to deal with them severely. God may deal with us in the same way. Our military, our national heritage – these cannot sustain us.
It is hard for us to live for God when things are easy. We do not depend upon God for each thing. We do not have to ask God to “give us this day our daily bread” when our cupboards are full. We begin to take credit for things ourselves.
But if God must deal with us severely, He tells us what His response will be if we seek Him with all our hearts. Look at Jeremiah 29:12-14, “Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find me , when ye shall search for me with all your heart. And I will be found of you, saith the LORD: and I will turn away your captivity, and I will gather you from all the nations, and from all the places whither I have driven you, saith the LORD; and I will bring you again into the place whence I caused you to be carried away captive.”
If you seek for God with all your heart, He will be found of you.
It would be better for us to seek God before He chastens us; but if we seek God with all our hearts after He chastens us, He will still be found of us.
If we would seek God, this brings pleasure to God. We have the opportunity to bring pleasure to God. By this we bring God glory. In III John 1:4, John says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” If this is true of an earthly father, how much more must it be true of our heavenly Father! And if walking in truth brings God great joy, how much sorrow must it bring God when His children rebel against Him and walk contrary to His ways!
When we experience chastening from God, let us not think that we deserve better treatment from God. Rather, we deserve much worse.
Consider again the principles for dealing with God’s chastening: (I.) Be prepared to stay in the situation for a long time – Jeremiah 29:1-7; (II.) Do not try to fight against the situation – v. 7; (III.) Do not listen to those who teach otherwise – vs. 8,9; (IV.) God wants what is best for you – v.11; (V.) Seek the Lord with all your heart – vs. 12-14
(All Scripture verses quoted from KJV)
by Sue C.